Posts posted by boba
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Well that really is a matter of subjective argument. We all know there are shed loads of records out there which are not 'soul' but which get played as such on the many 'soul' scenes around the globe. Frankly, there are many many records played on soul scenes which would never stand up to being called soul, but they are.
i can play you 100% country and 80s heavy metal records that i have been sold as soul. i actually have a stack of them probably a foot high now. i don't even deal with returning them or say anything to the seller if they are like $10 records. They are all ungoogleable private label things. And the gamble usually works in my favor.
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Also, I always get burned by sellers listing garbage pop/country/heavy metal records as soul. I do due diligence with any record I don't know -- google, etc. I was pissed recently because I had to argue with a seller who had a satisfaction guarantee wanting to refuse my return because the record was "not soul" because they said my reason was totally ridiculous. They also pointed me to a popsike auction that listed it as soul. I was very angry, and I would have gotten my money back via paypal anyways, but eventually I got them to refund on return. To them a popsike auction "proved" that it was a soul record. In the end they didn't benefit from acting like a dick.
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The Listing Says " Return if Not Satisfied" Rods Not Satisfied , So i Can't see what Seller Gripe is?? ... Paul
exactly. it should say "returns accepted only if seller deems buyer to have an acceptable reason and that they did not misunderstand my description" if that's the actual return policy. if that's your attitude as a seller, put it out there.
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Bob, that's just bullshit (excuse the pun). You're referring to description of condition. And that should be as clearly as possible of course. Rod made a wrong assumption, period.
I was giving an extreme example to make the point that there is a less extreme gray ground. I actually have a less extreme example from another message board -- the seller had like a 2 line auction with a photo that had a grade of the cover and record. The buyer was mad that the stock inner sleeve had writing on it and the seller said they never guaranteed or stated the condition of the inner sleeve (you could see it in the background of the photo, that there was an inner sleeve though). How clear is that case?
Also, if someone has a satisfaction guarantee, it shouldn't be a lie, otherwise make your actual guarantee (with crazy restocking fees, etc.) explicit. When you sell, put some bold text at the bottom about how you won't take items back for things you deem to be buyers mistakes (instead of "100% satisfaction guarantee") and see how excited people are to buy from you.
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Do you also not state that the b-side is covered in feces? What is the dividing line where something has to be disclosed vs. not disclosed? Clearly the seller wasn't trying to misrepresent the item but rod also did reasonable due diligence as a buyer, he wasn't some idiot who bought a record he didn't like and decided to return it. It's a blurry line where the buyer should be able to return the item.
Any reasonable seller should take a record for almost any reason. I always take records back (happened a few times) and never felt a buyer was trying to get over on me. I treat people with the same respect I would expect as a buyer. If I learn a buyer is shady it's on them and I can eventually decide to deal or not deal with them. I haven't sold as many records as many people on here so maybe something changes when you sell many more records, but I believe reasonable customer service leads to good customers. If you take a record back, it's not like you're really out that much as a seller, you're (mostly) back to the same position you started with. If the customer can't return a record they're left in a position where they paid for something they didn't want and have a negative opinion of the seller.
Additionally, if the seller had a "100% satisfaction policy", that should be more than just words. I think if a seller made their return policy more explicit and wanted to not take items back in cases like these, they would have much fewer customers and people would think their auctions look super anti-customer. You would look like this guy, who I have never dealt with for obvious reasons:
I gotta say, I respect him for being honest with all his policies at least.
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i agree it clearly doesn't matter and i buy a lot of records on ebay, i also eat so much seller BS and misgraded records, poorly packed broken records, etc. At this point if the record is under $15 and arrives cracked due to poor packaging i throw it away and don't leave feedback or contact the seller. i don't want the seller to block me because if they do the next day they're going to have my holy grail 45 up. i'm actually not sure why rod posted actually, it did seem like a fairly minor thing.
i was just making a specific comment about flaunting 100% feedback to an unsatisfied buyer.
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Extremely harsh view given that the seller has acted honourably and (IMHO) beyond what they were obliged to do. Far from being stupid, I think this seller should be thanked for being so flexible and accomodating.
am I misreading the thread? rod said he had to argue with him to get him to take a return despite his 100% satisfaction return guarantee. That doesn't sound honorable to me. Either way, I don't care or know this seller, but my statement is true -- it is stupid to constantly point out your 100% feedback (not that that even means much) to someone who has the power to ruin that. How is that not stupid? That's like telling someone with a gun in front of you to not shoot you because you've never been shot before.
if someone has a problem with something i send them i refund their money and shipping when they send it back and don't argue with them. maybe every seller doesn't have to do that but they also shouldn't put anything about a 100% satisfaction return guarantee if they don't intend to.
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Mother was JMM, Black nasty was I believe a son and daughter
it was more than a son and daughter but the band contained a son and daughter of JMM. what was funny was that the last name that the group had throughout its career was the "General Assistance and the ADC Band". Apparently ADC stood for "Aid for Dependent Children".
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Hi, welcome to my latest Sitting in the Park Show. Yesterday I did a show attempting to honor Martin Luther King and recently deceased Chicago / Atlanta singer Liz Lands. I also played some nice 60s female sweet soul and late 70s male group sweet soul. You can listen to the show online at:
https://www.sittinginthepark.com/1-20-2013.mp3
You can listen to other shows and interviews with Chicago groups by going to my main page www.sittinginthepark.com. Also, if someone you know wants to subscribe to this email list, they can add themselves at the following URL:
Playlist follows and thanks for your interest.
Martin Luther King - I have a dream (excerpt) - Gordy
Liz Lands - Midnight Johnny - Gordy
Daylighters - Sweeter - Tip Top
Confessions - Things are not the same - Down
Micky Wood - Please Mr. Kennedy - Tamla
Adorables - Ooh boy - Golden World
Maxine Brown - Let me give you my lovin’ - Wand
Lollipops - Cheating is telling on you - VIP
Tambi Garrett - Leave a little love - Ascot
Ramona King - Oriental Garden - Eden
Liz Lands - Don’t shut me out - One-Der-Ful
Vickie Baines - Sweeter than sweet things - Loma
Linda Foreman - Let’s get it together - Public
Gina Hill - Let me solve this problem - Jill
Village Callers - When you’re gone - Rampart
Septimus - We want a piece of the pie - The Chosen Few
The Reason Why - So long letter (in a picture frame) - Polydor
Sweet Charles - Give the woman a chance - People
Infernal Blues Machine - Ain’t that love - London
Charlie Mitchell - After hours - Janus
Controllers - Distant Lover - CMP
New York City - Don’t rush me now - Br-roma
thanks,
Bob
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I can definitely fix any skip without screwing up your record, even a gouge parallel to the grooves. re: pete's comment you could use a scalpel to fix a skip but it's much bigger than the width of a groove and it's hit or miss and the fix will be visible. you also can't see the groove with an eye, you can see sort of where the skip is, but you need a microscope or high power magnifier to actually see the grooves. pm me.
Unsatisfactory Ebay Deal
in Look At Your Box
and just to clarify, these aren't sellers who know anything about any soul scene, they are people who know zero about soul music and put everything there because they are greedy