ditto !! im a single father with a 16yr old autistic daughter who fizzes like a bottle of shook up pop and i need all my energy to look after her,i also work, i did the whole thing in the 80s to early 90s and never missed a nighter of a weekend,u couldnt keep me away from stafford, leicester, notts, morecambe, hinckley etc, etc, loved every second of it but now some things are more important,i do go soulin once a month though when my girl goes to respite for the weekend but only do soul nites,im still obsessed with rare soul and still collect etc, as we all know, it doesnt matter how u get your soul fix cos its in the blood and always will be, in fact my daughter is obsessed with music too and loves rare soul nearly as much as me so its not all bad !