Thanks everyone,i know who y true mates are, was just on a bit of a downer, please disregard my negativity, its my birthday tomorrow, n im back on top

Love Harpo

Edited June 10, 201015 yr by harpo1

I DID TELL YOU MANY MANY TIMES YET YOU STILL THINK YOUR NOT BEING ...USED !

YOUR TRUE FRIENDS WHERE/ARE THERE FOR YOU 365 DAYS

THE REST ONLY ON WEEKENDS

i wont pretend to know what your on about as i dont and have not read your previous post to this "update".

But this is really very very simple to remedy.

It goes something along the lines of FUCK EM'!! But to do this and mean it you really need to be in the frame of mind of a person that REALLY does not give a toss and that i know is easier said than it is done, after all these are people you prob still believe are your friends when in truth they are not.

See them for what they really are and move on, dont let it worry you.

Hello my friend.

I won't say don't let them bother you because I know that is easier said than done.

What I will say though is don't let them know they are bothering you.

People hate to think what they are doing is having no effect and that my friend is beating them at their own game without having to even think about it.

Keep smiling hun and hope to see you both soon.

Hello my friend.

I won't say don't let them bother you because I know that is easier said than done.

What I will say though is don't let them know they are bothering you.

People hate to think what they are doing is having no effect and that my friend is beating them at their own game without having to even think about it.

Keep smiling hun and hope to see you both soon.

AGREED, IT'S CALLED REVERSE PSYCOLOGY. REMEMBER IT'S ONLY DEAD FISH THAT GO WITH THE FLOW. STAY SOULFUL.

I don,t know you personally.......but,get a grip fella.....do what l,ve always done ....just tell yourself most people don,t like ya and your laughing. This is the soul scene after all. I know when someone is talking to me what they are thinking and if it,s not nice then ho ho ...I,M SO UPSET not many straight up people in life....the ones you meet that are......they're ya mates the rest are just night time aquintences peggy

Right Mister - I'll go with what Toadie says

You know who your true friends are - they're the ones that give you love, time and support when and how YOU need it, are there through thick and thin and if necessary go out of there way to do things for you.

As for the others - keep them at arms length! Don't let em know that they're bothering you - in fact keep talking to them, laughing etc even if its obvious they don't actually want to 'give' anything to you - and are just there to 'take'. Once you've got your head round the fact that you are in control of the situation - you'll find it will affect them far more than it affects you!

I'm not sure if we know each other but it sounds as though outwardly you have a strong personality - even if mentally its a bit quavery. Always remember that many people would kill for this confidence and personality - and if they don't have it will do there best to destroy it in others.

Now hold your head up high, shoulders back, tits out - and show em that f*ck off attitude!

Right Mister - I'll go with what Toadie says

You know who your true friends are - they're the ones that give you love, time and support when and how YOU need it, are there through thick and thin and if necessary go out of there way to do things for you.

As for the others - keep them at arms length! Don't let em know that they're bothering you - in fact keep talking to them, laughing etc even if its obvious they don't actually want to 'give' anything to you - and are just there to 'take'. Once you've got your head round the fact that you are in control of the situation - you'll find it will affect them far more than it affects you!

I'm not sure if we know each other but it sounds as though outwardly you have a strong personality - even if mentally its a bit quavery. Always remember that many people would kill for this confidence and personality - and if they don't have it will do there best to destroy it in others.

Now hold your head up high, shoulders back, tits out - and show em that f*ck off attitude!

Thats the way in life think you can count your true friends on one hand

Thats the way in life think you can count your true friends on one hand

Some people's only true friend is one hand!

Some people's only true friend is one hand!

Are you talking from experience mate

I think Joan got it about right... Don't let the fools know they have got you, then they will just craw back under a stonel with any luck..

Weekend time and the soul nights are for having a good time i think... Stay away from any negative vibes, find the folk you wanna be with, dig the tunes and keep away from the people who like the darkside...

Some people's only true friend is one hand!

and what makes that even funnier is you user name

nice one

Rob

Some people's only true friend is one hand!

is that one hand luke

I don,t know you personally.......but,get a grip fella.....do what l,ve always done ....just tell yourself most people don,t like ya and your laughing. This is the soul scene after all. I know when someone is talking to me what they are thinking and if it,s not nice then ho ho ...I,M SO UPSET not many straight up people in life....the ones you meet that are......they're ya mates the rest are just night time aquintences peggy

Psychic Peggy speaks to the nation. .Great advice madam.

Those of you who may have read my comments last time will remember i told just how much i was enjoying the whole experience like i used to,and i had many nice coments about my refreshing upbeat commentsm from friends and people i didn't know.

How fickle the scene is sad to say recently friends have filtered back to me snippets of info relating to some rather nasty, and bewildering comments made to them by people who i regaed as long term matesm, i make a point of not wanting to know details, but apparently suggesting they keep well away. Individually its laughable but when taken whole its giving me quite a lot of stress, as there is no history of anything untoward in our years of aquaintence, or any apparent motive or gain for them.

But of late it seems that our particular group who would be together at events are far less talkative, to me in particular, leaving me with the feelings of self dount that once were my bane, and me more and more taking myself off , and Sandi left alone. Just to say you are all entitled to make up your own opinions, but we have not to our knowledge done anything to put our friendships in jeapordy

Ignore the feckers Harpo.

I don,t know you personally.......but,get a grip fella.....do what l,ve always done ....just tell yourself most people don,t like ya and your laughing. This is the soul scene after all. I know when someone is talking to me what they are thinking and if it,s not nice then ho ho ...I,M SO UPSET not many straight up people in life....the ones you meet that are......they're ya mates the rest are just night time aquintences peggy

Spot on Peggy !!

One of the best lines I ever heard you come out with was...... "Do ya know why I like you pottsy?"....."Errrrm no peggy"......"because no other f***er does"