Posted September 3, 200717 yr Have sold a 45 to a member of SSource. ($400.00) Agreed to send record before payment was made. Not been paid. Agreement was: Paypal last Thursday. Have sent numerous emails/pms. No replies. I need the money to pass to other collectors for stuff I bought. How long before I name and shame?
September 3, 200717 yr If you click on their name, their profile shows up. This will tell you when they last visited the site, might then know if they've read pm's. I would seek assistance from Mike before naming and shaming, just incase he knows of multiple accounts and such like.
September 3, 200717 yr Have sold a 45 to a member of SSource. ($400.00) Agreed to send record before payment was made. Not been paid. Agreement was: Paypal last Thursday. Have sent numerous emails/pms. No replies. I need the money to pass to other collectors for stuff I bought. How long before I name and shame? Tuff one to call Dave, as we are mates you sent me that Symbol Demo the other week before I sent the money, trust and understanding I guess, I got the tune and you finally lol got the payment which was never in question, if you have done the same to someone you don't know that well and you are still waiting for payment then there is no excuse, perhaps give the person one more chance to send payment with a polite IM then I feel you will have no choice but to name and shame, or at the very least ask them to return the 45 if they are having problems meeting the payment. Regards - Mark Bicknell.
September 3, 200717 yr Author If you click on their name, their profile shows up. This will tell you when they last visited the site, might then know if they've read pm's. Thanks for that advice, I didn't know that. Very helpful. Seems the guy has not visited for a while. Not replied to emails either though, maybe IT probs?
September 4, 200717 yr Always a way of getting touch Dave.Ask for other contact details of the guy on the forum,i think that some person will know them and send another email address or phone number..If not then get the address and send the boys round Edited September 4, 200717 yr by little-stevie
September 4, 200717 yr Author Can anyone get me the phone number of the guy I was asked to send the 45 to. (This is not the guy who bought it, but the address I was asked to send it to.) Anyone know this guy? Any help appreciated. Paul Gregory Ashton-on-Ribble Preston, UK
September 4, 200717 yr Can´t help with a number I´m afraid Dave............I trust some soul sourcer will tho Sounds dodgier and dodgier the more I read this thread and I hate to see good honest dealers like youself getting the run around Hope things work out for you Cheers Paul
September 4, 200717 yr Can anyone get me the phone number of the guy I was asked to send the 45 to. (This is not the guy who bought it, but the address I was asked to send it to.) Anyone know this guy? Any help appreciated. Paul Gregory Ashton-on-Ribble Preston, UK PMd you
September 6, 200717 yr Always a way of getting touch Dave.Ask for other contact details of the guy on the forum,i think that some person will know them and send another email address or phone number..If not then get the address and send the boys round Hi Steve, I somehow don't think Dave would need the boys! Dave, The address is not too far from me, can I help? ATB Brian
September 6, 200717 yr I'm jumping on this thread to tell a similar story, and eventually asking for suggestions... Bought a record from a SS member, sent a money order three months ago, and never received anything... The seller replied to my first couple of PMs telling he's got the payment, and I would had the record as soon as possible... After so long time he doesn't reply to my PMs and emails, but I KNOW he has read them because I've checked his last visits on the forum on his profile page... My first tought would be to knock at his door and ask for the record, or for my money back, but I'm living in Italy and he's living in England, and for 55 quid it doesn't worth the journey... Bear in mind that the tone of my PMs has always been very friendly and kind... Any suggestion...? Thanks Roccia
September 6, 200717 yr Author Thanks ofr the PMs guys, just an update: I've spoken to to the guy who 'bought' the record. He siad he would pay me via paypal last Tuesday alas, no payment. In his defence, he has a problem with his computer. He's then said he's gonna send me the cash. I'm hoping the guy is true to his word as I don't really wanna name and sha me him. But I will if I need to. Brian, Thanks for the offer, but our Mick will go pick it up if needs be. That should do the trick. Roccia, It's unacceptable Mate. If three months after you've paid you still haven'y got the record in my opinion, you are well within your rights to name and shame the person. You have shown more patience than I would my friend.
September 6, 200717 yr Roccia, It's unacceptable Mate. If three months after you've paid you still haven'y got the record in my opinion, you are well within your rights to name and shame the person. You have shown more patience than I would my friend. I know Dave, but I'd rather not name & shame him yet. I hope he reads this post, and decide to send me the record I've paid three months ago... Before i will N&S him... Thanks for your support. Roccia
September 6, 200717 yr Author I know Dave, but I'd rather not name & shame him yet. I hope he reads this post, and decide to send me the record I've paid three months ago... Before i will N&S him... Thanks for your support. Roccia Roccia, Sir, you are indeed a gentleman. I hope he reads this and does the right thing. Everyone has the odd drama now and then, that's accepted. Paypal goes wrong, Ebay goes wrong, telly blows up folks overspend now and then etc etc. My problem is when people just 'disappear' on you and don't communicate properly. I like to think I'm a pretty fair bloke and I send 45s to people before they pay on a weekly basis. Never had a drama before. Hope you get sorted Mate.
September 7, 200717 yr Dave, as you've said I'm a gentleman (and proud to be)... I've just sent a PM & email to the seller of the never received 45", claiming for the record or for my money back, otherwise I'll post the whole story on this forum, warning the readers to don't buy records from him... Roccia
September 7, 200717 yr Dave, as you've said I'm a gentleman (and proud to be)... I've just sent a PM & email to the seller of the never received 45", claiming for the record or for my money back, otherwise I'll post the whole story on this forum, warning the readers to don't buy records from him... Roccia It wasn't me by the way
September 7, 200717 yr Have sold a 45 to a member of SSource. ($400.00) Agreed to send record before payment was made. Not been paid. Agreement was: Paypal last Thursday. Have sent numerous emails/pms. No replies. I need the money to pass to other collectors for stuff I bought. How long before I name and shame? It wasn't me by the way
September 7, 200717 yr Good news! I've just received a PM from the seller. He gives me apologies for what's happened, says that's not his normal way to deal, and he offers me a total refund. Happy ending... BTW, no. He wasn't Pete Smith... Roccia
September 7, 200717 yr Good news! I've just received a PM from the seller. He gives me apologies for what's happened, says that's not his normal way to deal, and he offers me a total refund. Happy ending... BTW, no. He wasn't Pete Smith... Roccia Yeah shame you had to threaten him with exposure on here though isn't it, you should have named him.
September 7, 200717 yr Yeah shame you had to threaten him with exposure on here though isn't it, you should have named him. Don't be too hard Pete... A bad time could happen... Maybe he had some serious problems. How can I know it...? The important thing is that the story is going to a happy end...
Have sold a 45 to a member of SSource. ($400.00)
Agreed to send record before payment was made.
Not been paid. Agreement was: Paypal last Thursday.
Have sent numerous emails/pms. No replies.
I need the money to pass to other collectors for stuff I bought.
How long before I name and shame?