hi ,dont go to many events now but enjoy reading nand hearing about them ,i dont get much time now ,i work in the nhs and also have another job so dont get a lot of time to go out ,i sound like a workaholic here ,my freinds complain i have no time to see them ,have 3 grown up sons ,,one in bournemouth and one in poole and one in carlisle and any time i go down south i always miss the soul events , i dont no anyone down there so i would have to go on my own ,my sons and partners would go but i no it not their thing so would not drag them along ,i have been doing my garden for a year now and i nearly completed it all on my own ,was clay soil so had to dig it with a trowel ,freinds still go to local soul nites and you never tire of hearing about the soul scene and reading on this site keeps me up with what nites are popular now ,.