actually, this is my whole point, yes you are missing something, people only see what they want to see and feel what they want too feel ,, depending on how close u look and how much u let yourself feel ,, is the whole point ,, u c there are two people in the picture, what u think is the whole story isnt necessarily true, in your words it computes as, im not the the he, in the pic, im the she , and i am old enough , and not only old enough i was brought up with kenny spence, hope u get a lil more insight,, and watch this space over the next few months and u will undertand more,,